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Afterplay Tips – Sex Doesn’t Have To End With An Orgasm

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What? You’re just going to fall asleep?

Sex is a lot like air travel when you think about it.

Dating is a lot like going through airport security because it’s a long tedious processes to determine whether or not you’re a threat. Foreplay is a lot like take-off because you need to warm up the engines and taxi to the runway. And finally sex is flight because it’s the main event.

But for this analogy to work, what would landing be? Landing would be the often forgotten act of afterplay.

Afterplay is just like foreplay but it occurs after sex. Afterplay just gives a nice denouement to sex and more often than not it leads to more sex.

Of course, don’t beat yourself up if you’ve neglected afterplay. I know most of your understanding of sex comes from watching porn which 99% of the time it ends with the orgasm, so how were you supposed to know about afterplay? Hell, afterplay doesn’t even have a Wikipedia article.

Next time you have sex, don’t let it end with the orgasm. Fight the urge to roll over and fall asleep and try some of these afterplay ideas for better, balanced, and possibly more sex. 

Stay where you are!

I know it’s tempting to turn your back and fall asleep or get out of bed and call a cab, but the best way to engage in afterplay is to stay close to one another. When you get up or roll over, whether you intend to or not, you immediately send a message that you’re no longer interested in your partner. Staying in bed and keeping your partner close will reinforce intimate feelings and it’s easy to shower them with kisses to coax them for a second helping of sex.

Sexy caresses

When you’re holding your partner close, make sure to caress them gently. Of course, you can give them a semi-erotic massage if they’re not feeling the gentle touch. Start in a non-sexual area and move in to the erogenous zones as you go. Your caresses shouldn’t scream, “Give me sex!” Just be gentle and let them come around.

Pillow talk

So you just had sex. What should you talk about? The weather? Your local sports team? Absolutely not. Talk to your partner about how great they are in bed. The talk can be as dirty or as sweet as you want to be, as long as you make it clear that they are amazing in the sack and you’re willing to go another couple rounds just to make sure that they’re the best you ever had.

Double your pleasure with a shower together!

Ok, so this might against rule #1 of staying in bed together but sometimes a post-sex shower is necessary. If it is, get in the shower together! Washing each other is just like the sexy caresses except you’re in a steaming hot shower. Doesn’t that just scream more sex?

No phones!

The biggest post-sex mood killer is when one of you immediately starts texting. You just had sex! Enjoy it! Just because one of you came doesn’t mean the sex is over. You need to stay in the moment and enjoy each other.

Hope these tips help. Once you make afterplay a regular part of your sex life, you’ll wonder how you ever lived without it.

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