Sex & Dating Tips

Everything you wanted to know about sex but were too afraid to ask

  • 10 Cumshot Rules to Live By

    If you watch porn, you’ve probably noticed that most porn movies end with one or more guys cumming in one or more women’s faces. This is the cumshot.

    You might also be wanting to experiment with cumshots yourself. However, a cumshot is not as simple as it may look on screen. It’s a loaded, taboo act that can be extremely hot when done correctly. And to do a cumshot correctly, we’ve narrowed it done to 10 rules you need to live by and you ought to have a successful cumshot every time you pull out and blast your load onto whatever bodypart you want to see covered in cum.  Continue Reading

    May 19, 2015 • Sex, Sex & Dating Tips • Views: 4702

  • Custom Sex Tips for Fans: Blowjob Blues

    This is Custom Sex Tips for Fans (formerly known as Chico’s Sex Advice), a semi-regular column where I, Chico Dusty, apply my knowledge of all things sex to solve your sex problems, answer your sex questions and provide you with general sex advice specifically for you.

    If you need sex tips, feel free to send an email to and I’ll solve all your problems.

    Today, Blog reader “WieWie” wants to know… Continue Reading

    May 12, 2015 • Sex, Sex & Dating Tips • Views: 5409

  • The Female Orgasm Explained with Science

    The female orgasm! If you’re still struggling to give one or receive one, this new video from Wired might just be the perfect thing.

    Basically, this video visualizes different mechanics and statistics all about the female orgasm using with cool science experiments. Watch the video below and the learn science behind the female orgasm!  Continue Reading

    May 6, 2015 • Sex, Sex & Dating Tips • Views: 4737

  • Eva Lovia Wants Your Balls To Be Healthy

    Remember earlier this week when we wrote about Eva Lovia’s new Game of Thrones porn parody?

    If you only watched the clip of Eva Lovia’s new Game of Thrones porn parody that was embedded into that post, you may not have realized that it’s more than just the gorgeous Eva Lovia getting fucked hard in a cool costume.

    In the video, Eva Lovia takes a break from sucking her King’s dick to show the men of the world how to check themselves for signs of testicular cancer.

    Though this porn PSA may seem like a crazy idea, I’d argue that it’s ingenious because the men watching the video already have their hands around their junk in some form or another and what heterosexual man wouldn’t do exactly what a beauty like Eva Lovia told them to do?

    Watch a safe-for-work version of Eva Lovia’s testicular cancer PSA below.  Continue Reading

    April 22, 2015 • Pictures & Vids, Popular, Porn, Pornstars, Sex, Sex & Dating Tips, Sexual Health, Top • Views: 7284

  • How To Make Earth Day Sexy

    Today is Earth Day. It’s the one day where we all feel an intense amount of regret for pushing our planet’s conditions to the brink of uninhabitable before resuming littering everywhere and not believing in recycling.

    Earth Day, for me, is closely associated with shame. I can just feel the environmentalists of the world shaking their heads at all my bad, eco-unfriendly habits. I think most people tend to forget about Earth Day is because it’s super depressing to be bombarded with statistics for why we’re all doomed.

    What environmentalism really lacks is sex appeal. People need to get excited about Earth Day! We don’t need to feel shame! So today we’re going to attempt the impossible and inject a bit of sex into your Earth Day celebrations.

    Below you’ll find a handful of suggestions to help make this Earth Day sexy.  Continue Reading

    April 22, 2015 • Sex, Sex & Dating Tips • Views: 5225

  • This Is The Only Thing You Need To Do To Make A Woman Orgasm

    Do you ever lie awake at night, haunted by your inability to make women orgasm?

    It’s happened to all of us. Which is why you’re about to learn the one thing you need to do to make a woman orgasm right now.  Continue Reading

    April 21, 2015 • Sex, Sex & Dating Tips • Views: 10382

  • Does Marijuana Make Sex Better?

    Despite its ubiquity, marijuana is a substance shrouded in myth.

    It’s a gateway drug they say. It doesn’t give you a hangover they say. It leads to crime and delinquency they say.

    And while I can personally attest that all these so-called marijuana myths are in fact 100% true, there’s really only one question that needs to be asked of marijuana: DOES MARIJUANA MAKE SEX BETTER?  Continue Reading

    April 20, 2015 • Funny, INTERVIEWS, Popular, Porn, Pornstars, Sex, Sex & Dating Tips, Stuff • Views: 8055

  • How Much Should You Drink To Look Your Best?

    Though a lifetime of heavy drinking is almost 100% guaranteed to leave you a withered husk of a human being that no one would possibly find attractive other than those who also suffer from cirrhosis of the liver, drinking is a surefire way to make you look better.

    At least…that’s how I’ve always felt as someone whose physical appearance is greatly enhanced after a couple of ice cold mojitos (and that’s especially true when people looking at me have had a few drinks).

    But the trick is knowing when to draw the line. You see, after a certain number of drinks (it varies from person to person) the alcohol in your body will stop acting as an attraction-enhancer and turn you into a slob.

    The Hareald‘s A.K. Anderson painstakingly analyzed when to draw the line to maximize your alcohol in-take as an attraction-enhancer without turning into a complete slob. To find out how much you should drink to look your best, let the Hareald be your guide.

    “How Much Should You Drink To Look Your Best?” on The Hareald

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    April 16, 2015 • Sex, Sex & Dating Tips • Views: 5931

  • 5 Crazy Sex Positions You Need To Try Tonight

    Now that Spring has sprung, we’ve been feeling even friskier than usual. When we’re not writing about hot, new porn, we’ve been trying out crazy sex positions. Acrobatic, wild sex positions that are more exciting than your average girl-on-tops.

    Some of these crazy sex positions require a certain level of flexibility and athleticism that you may not currently have. But don’t let that discourage you! Trying these crazy sex positions will be half the fun!   Continue Reading

    April 9, 2015 • Popular, Sex, Sex & Dating Tips • Views: 7301

  • Make These 4 Sex Positions Even Better with These Simple Sex Tips!

    Is your sexual repertoire getting stale by performing the same sex positions over and over again? You’re on top. Then she’s on top. Then you’re on top again.


    If your sex life needs a shot in the arm, follow these simple sex tips to make these 4 common sex positions EVEN BETTER!

    Continue Reading

    April 6, 2015 • Popular, Sex, Sex & Dating Tips • Views: 8252

  • 4 Easter Role Play Scenarios

    Easter kicks off tomorrow, which means that you four days off to celebrate the miracle that is the Easter Bunny coming back to life after being dead for three days.

    Of course, you may be at loss in terms of how to spend Easter weekend because you do not observe traditional Easter celebration because you are secular scum. If that’s the case, then why not indulge in some Easter-themed role play with your significant other? It’s sexy, it’s festive, it’s fun, it’s all you need to celebrate Easter!

    To help you get down with some Easter role play this weekend, here are 4 role play scenarios to get your started.  Continue Reading

    April 2, 2015 • Sex, Sex & Dating Tips • Views: 3137

  • 5 Reasons Why Curvy Girls Are More Fun In Bed

    We’ve been really feeling curvy girls for the last…28 years? Has it really been that long? That’s not the point. The point is, if you’re not down with curvy girls, you’re missing out big time.

    Today, we’re taking it upon ourselves to impart some knowledge onto you. Specifically, the knowledge that curvy girls are more fun in bed.

    So get ready to learn something with 5 Reasons Why Curvy Girls are More Fun in Bed!  Continue Reading

    March 31, 2015 • Popular, Porn Lists, Sex, Sex & Dating Tips • Views: 11524

  • Do Grapefruits Make Blowjobs Even Better?

    I’ve seen some strange sex tips throughout my life but nothing as strange as this one.

    In the video below, you’ll see Chicago-based sexpert Auntie Angel teaches you how to hollow out a grapefruit and then use it to make blowjobs even better.

    And while this video may seem tame at first when Auntie Angel is going over the proper technique of hollowing out a grapefruit, shit really gets crazy at 2:50 when she starts going to town on a dildo to demonstrate how to use the hollowed grapefruit as the perfect blowjob aid.  Continue Reading

    March 25, 2015 • Funny, Sex, Sex & Dating Tips • Views: 2437

  • 4 Ways To Last Longer In Bed

    There are two things that every man is insecure about when it comes to sex:

    1. Dick size.
    2. Premature ejaculation.

    And while you’d have to go to great lengths to increase your dick size, learning how to last longer in bed is easy if you’re willing to put in the time and effort to train yourself to control your orgasm. Unfortunately, this training regiment to last longer in bed will mean that you’ll have to cum. A lot. If you feel like you can take some time to make yourself cum over and over again in order to some day last longer in bed, then keep reading and you’re on your way to becoming a God of Sex!  Continue Reading

    March 24, 2015 • Popular, Sex, Sex & Dating Tips, Top, Trending • Views: 8319

  • The 6 Most Common First Date Turn-Offs

    “What the heck went wrong during the first date?” is a question we’ve all asked ourselves too many times when waiting up all night waiting for a reply to a series of overly apologetic messages while we refuse to believe that our phone number has been blocked.

    The people at asked 150 willing New York City participant between the ages of 21 and 35 “What the heck went wrong on the first date?” and found some interesting answers.

    Without further ado, the 6 Most Common First Date Turn-Offs according to  Continue Reading

    March 23, 2015 • Popular, Sex, Sex & Dating Tips, Trending • Views: 6807

  • 5 Sex Toys Every Man Should Own

    You don’t need a Veronica Avluv video to show you that sex is better with sex toys (but it’s here if you do).

    But even though we all know that sex is better with sex toys, there still seems to be a lingering stigma about owning sex toys. People are especially cagey of men owning sex toys. Since the first season of Sex and the City, it’s been totally fine for women to talk openly about their vibrators. But if a man tries to talk about a vibrator, everyone grabs their pitchforks and torches because you’re a pervert!

    Well you know what? I say nuts to all that crap! Men shouldn’t be ashamed of owning sex toys. No, rather men who don’t own sex toys should be ashamed because they are missing out.

    To help you maximize your sexual potential, here are the 5 sex toys every man should have hidden somewhere in their bedroom.  Continue Reading

    March 18, 2015 • Popular, Sex, Sex & Dating Tips, Top, Toys • Views: 10813

  • Drunk Sex Tips

    Unless you’re some kind of nerd (like me), today you’re going to get drunk and have sex with a stranger who is bloated on green beer because that’s what Saint Patrick’s Day is all about.

    Though alcohol is a great facilitator in the process of getting laid, it ultimately hinders everything else. When you’re drunk your coordination is off, your communication skills are slurred and you’re tired. But you know what? Nuts to that! It’s Saint Patrick’s Day. We’re gonna get drunk. We’re gonna get laid. And with these drunk sex tips, it’l be the best sex our lives.  Continue Reading

    March 17, 2015 • Sex, Sex & Dating Tips • Views: 4335

  • Want To Get Laid? Put Up Fliers Around Your Neighborhood!

    Residents of Lower Manhattan will recognize the flier pictured above as Dan Perino’s desperate plea for a girlfriend.

    Since last summer, he’s plastered thousands of these fliers around Lower Manhattan and subsequently became an Internet sensation.

    But the real question is, has his campaigned worked? After a recent interview with, seems like it has against all odds.  Continue Reading

    March 4, 2015 • Sex, Sex & Dating Tips, Sex News • Views: 1800

  • Top 5 Safe Words to Avoid in Kinky Sex

    As the 50 Shades of Grey movie continues to dominate the box office, we’re inclined to believe that movie-goers will be tempted to try kinky sex despite of the fact that what they saw in the 50 Shades movie is more like two chemistry-less cardboard cut-outs pressing against each other rather than real kinky sex.

    To have good kinky sex, you need accessories. Click here to browse for kinky sex accessories on Adam & Eve, the internet’s most trusted sex shop.

    But even more important than sex accessories are safe words!

    Because kinky sex can often toe the lines of physical, emotional, or moral boundaries, it’s important to establish a safe word to respect the three tenants of BDSMN relationships: safe, sane and consensual. Whenever the action strays away from any of these three tenants, shout your safe word and it essentially flips the switch off.

    However, you need to choose a safe word that would not normally be uttered during sex so that there’s no confusion that might lead to mishaps.

    To ensure your forays into kinky sex aren’t as disastrous as watching the 50 Shades movie, here are the Top 5 Safe Words to Avoid in Kinky SexContinue Reading

    March 3, 2015 • Popular, Sex, Sex & Dating Tips • Views: 9201

  • This Is How Women Really Feel About Dick Pics

    Nothing illustrates the fact that men and women have different definitions of “sexy” than dick pics.

    Traditionally, women find a man in uniform sexy. You know why? Because this disgusting genitalia is covered up and they don’t have to look at it!

    Meanwhile, ,en find nude women sexy. So, when they want to appear sexy to women, they tend to not take into account that what is sexy to them is not universally sexy.

    Specifically, there are some men that think their penis, when photographed with low-lighting and way too many pixels, is the sexiest thing in the world. Women can’t resist!

    But there in lies the problem. You men are sorely mistaken if you think a shitty dick pic will turn a woman on, let alone appreciate it.

    To prove that I’m not just talking out of my ass, watch “Women React To Dick Pics” below.  Continue Reading

    February 13, 2015 • Funny, Popular, Sex, Sex & Dating Tips, Sex News, Stuff • Views: 7286