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Everything you wanted to know about sex but were too afraid to ask

  • Cures For Blue Balls, Ranked

    Is there anything worse than blue balls?

    If you can think of something worse than pain in the testicles caused by prolonged and unsatisfied sexual arousal, then I’d love to here about it.

    The one saving grace about getting blue balls is that it’s easy to cure. All you have to do is clear the pipes of fluid (i.e. cum!).

    Even though curing blue balls is (relatively) easy, we still decided to rank the cures from blue balls. See below the Cures For Blue Balls, Ranked from worst to best.  Continue Reading

    December 9, 2014 • Porn, Porn Lists, Sex, Sex & Dating Tips • Views: 6715

  • 18 Crazy Sex Positions Only Ever Attempted in Porn

    Porn isn’t just a masturbatory aid. It can also be used as sexual inspiration.

    Who hasn’t watched a porn video and found themselves thinking, “Damn. I’d like to try that.”?

    Perhaps it was watching someone have sex with a co-worker that gave your imagination an erection. Maybe it was a double anal scene that made you pause from getting yourself off to ponder its plausibility.

    More often than not, what I find most inspiring about watching free porn videos are the sex positions.

    When it comes to sex positions, my wheelhouse is limited. Even though I’ve written multiple articles like “10 New Sex Positions to Try!”, I still find that under pressure I can’t help but resort to the old reliable sex positions: missionary, doggy, cowgirl, reverse cowgirl and spoon.

    Sometimes, porn videos will show me an exciting new variation on these classic sex positions, but every now and then I see a sex position that makes absolutely no sense.

    Today, I’d like to honor these crazy sex positions that have only ever been attempted in porn with the following porn list. Don’t try these sex positions at home! They’re reserved for the professionals.  Continue Reading

    December 4, 2014 • Porn, Porn Lists, Sex, Sex & Dating Tips • Views: 8723

  • 4 Reasons Why Sex With Your Ex Can Be The Best Sex Ever

    If you were to ask any of your friends if hooking up with your ex is a good idea, they’d unanimously say, “Of course it’s a bad idea, you moron.”

    They’re not wrong. Having sex with your ex delays the inevitable moving on, there can be a ton of drama, you might be getting used, yadda yadda yadda.

    This free porn blog believes in balance. And from what we can tell, no one on Earth has ever argued for sex with your ex. So rather than just agree that sex with your ex could be disastrous, we’re going to give 4 reasons why sex with your ex can be the best sex ever!  Continue Reading

    December 4, 2014 • Pictures & Vids, Porn, Pornstars, Sex, Sex & Dating Tips • Views: 6866

  • “Sweet Peach” Doesn’t Want to Make Her Pussy Smell Like Peaches

    About two weeks ago, we posted about these dudes who wanted to make pussies smell like peaches. Turns out that was a misinterpretation and those guys had no idea what they were talking about, despite having a 10% stake in the company.

    Recently, the actual CEO of “Sweet Peach” spoke out and explained what the company is really about.

    What the company really aims to accomplish is to come up with a probiotic that will reduce bacteria in the vagina, reducing infection (which is what usually causes bad odour) and will in turn make vaginas smell better, which is an extremely noble cause. (You can contribute to the campaign here if you’d like.) It won’t make it smell like peaches though, and the CEO was actually quite appalled he made it seem that way. In fact, the company name actually comes from how pussies have frequently been alluded to as peaches in literature.

    That got me thinking though. Is the goal really for vaginas to smell/taste like peaches?  Continue Reading

    December 3, 2014 • Sex & Dating Tips, Sex News, Sexual Health • Views: 2825

  • This New, Kinky Sex Game Is As Good As Having a Threesome

    Have you always wanted to have a threesome but can’t muster the courage to invite another person into your bedroom?

    Well this free porn blog has just discovered a new sex game that is just as good as having a threesome, without adding another body to the bedroom.

    Continue Reading

    December 1, 2014 • Pictures & Vids, Porn, Sex, Sex & Dating Tips • Views: 8146

  • 8 Ways To Have Sex At Your Thanksgiving Family Gathering

    Nothing makes sex hotter than doing it in a situation that’s not conducive to getting down.

    Thanksgiving is tomorrow, which means you’re either on your way home to your family or family is coming to you. If you fall in neither category, congratulations! You don’t have to deal with all this sneaking around. You can go about boning in the way that’s most convenient to you.

    If you are hosting or spending time with family this Thanksgiving, then you know your sex life is going to take a hit. Sucks, doesn’t it?

    Well it doesn’t have to! This year, the Sex.com Blog has come up with 8 ways to have sex at your Thanksgiving family gathering so you can still enjoy a happy and healthy sex life even with the family around.  Continue Reading

    November 26, 2014 • Sex, Sex & Dating Tips • Views: 5591

  • Thanksgiving Sex Tip: Food Play Will Get You Through The Holiday

    Thanksgiving is upon us!

    I’m a big Thanksgiving fan because it gives me a chance to travel back to my hometown, see how time has ravaged my classmates and almost get into drunken brawls with puritan family members.

    If there’s one thing I don’t like about Thanksgiving, it’s the fact that we’re basically celebrating the genocide of native people it’s seeing so much food go to waste!

    But this Thanksgiving is going to be different. Instead of putting tons of leftovers in tupperware only to throw them out in mid-December when they’re more mold than food, I say it’s time to take those leftovers and have some fun with food play!  Continue Reading

    November 26, 2014 • Sex, Sex & Dating Tips • Views: 3663

  • How To Use A Fleshlight with Your Lover

    When it comes to male masturbatory aids, this porn blog can only endorse trying a Fleshlight.

    Why?

    Because Fleshlights are the best male sex toy on the market. It’s really as simple as that.

    Whenever we’ve written about Fleshlights in the past, we’ve only written about it in terms of solo use. So it’s time that we correct our omission of couples play with Fleshlights. Though Fleshlights are a lot of fun to use on yourself when you’re alone, it’s even better when you use it with a lover for some unforgettable foreplayContinue Reading

    November 25, 2014 • Pictures & Vids, Porn, Pornstars, Sex, Sex & Dating Tips, Toys • Views: 11391

  • Quick Guide: Spanking

    Spanking! It’s not just an antiquated and cruel parenting technique!

    No, spanking is something we during sex. Erotic spanking is so ubiquitous that I’m willing to bet that even you, dear reader, have spanked someone or have been spanked.

    Don’t worry, spanking is nothing to be ashamed of. Spanking injects a bit of playful pain to the intimate experience!

    But the question is…are you spanking your significant other correctly? Well, you’re about to learn how to spank with proper technique in this sex tipContinue Reading

    November 21, 2014 • Sex, Sex & Dating Tips • Views: 10031

  • How Can I Get Better At Riding My BF’s Cock? – Chico’s Sex Advice

    This is Chico’s Sex Advice, a semi-regular column where I, Chico Dusty, apply my knowledge of all things sex to solve your sex problems, answer your sex questions and provide you with general sex advice.

    If you need sex advice or if you have a question about sex that needs answering, feel free to send an email to cdusty@sex.com and I’ll solve all your problems.

    Today, a reader who calls herself  Miss Moon writes…

    “I’m terrible at being on top. Cowgirl, reverse cowgirl, I can’t do it! I suck at riding. I know I’m not doing it right, which makes riding him embarrassing and it gets harder and harder for me to work up the nerve to even try. My boyfriend has told me he doesn’t enjoy sex when I try to get on top, and as a result, we’re not having that as much sex as we’d like because he needs to do all the work. Do you have any sex tips for how I can get better at riding my boyfriend’s cock?”  Continue Reading

    November 19, 2014 • Sex, Sex & Dating Tips • Views: 8257

  • 9 Sex Tips Guaranteed To Make Her Cum Like Crazy

    Let me start by saying that good sex is not depended on orgasms. Sure, it’s obviously nicer when both parties get to cum one or more times throughout the night, but you shouldn’t get down on yourself if it doesn’t happen!

    That said, GREAT sex is when you can make your girl cum like crazy. Like can’t walk straight for a few days because she came so hard. If you want to have explosive sex and make your girl cum like crazy, try these 9 sex tips that will help your girl cum like crazy.  Continue Reading

    November 14, 2014 • Sex, Sex & Dating Tips • Views: 27102

  • 14 Arguments For Why Your GF Should Let You Give Her a Cum Shot In The Face

    Given the popularity of Sex.com’s Cum Shot category, I think it’s safe to assume that you guys like to see hot pornstars get a cum shot to the face.

    Who doesn’t love a good cum shot? In porn, a cum shot punctuates the sexual narrative. You might even say that a cum shot at the end of the scene represents the sexual satisfaction of male viewers around the world, fapping to free porn videos.

    Unfortunately, real life sex is does not always imitate what we’ve seen in porn videos. In particular, women who like getting a cum shot to the face are few and far between. Some women are grossed out by semen. Some women feel that a cum shot to the face is degrading. Whatever the reason, it’s rare to actually get permission to give a girl a cum shot.

    The Sex.com Blog is a firm believer that people should experience their sexual fantasies, not just fantasize about them. And since we know you guys fantasize about cum shots, we’ve come up with a list of 14 Arguments For Why Your GF Should Let You Give Her a Cum Shot In The Face. So if you want your cum shot fantasy to become a reality, get ready to learn some lines!  Continue Reading

    November 13, 2014 • Funny, Porn, Porn Lists, Sex & Dating Tips • Views: 14485

  • Red Velvet’s Complete Guide to Lesbian Scissoring

    You all watch porn, so you guys definitely know that lesbians do all sorts of awesome sex acts and are not limited to just scissoring. However, not everybody does and I often get the question “So you scissor?” when telling people I’m a lesbian.

    Generally, it’s a little rude to ask people about their sex lives when you first meet them, so I usually just say “Sometimes, how about you?” and move on to a different topic, but in all seriousness, despite what a lot of people who know nothing about lesbian sex seem to think, not a lot of lesbian scissor.

    Why? Because it’s actually kind of hard when you get down to it and if done wrong, can be quite awkward too (but that’s true for most sex acts anyway). So if you’ve wanted to scissor or just wanted to know about it but have just never known how, well you’re in luck, because you all have me. As a lesbian who has done some scissoring myself and has found it enjoyable, I feel it is my duty to provide a guide to scissoring for lesbians, bisexuals and anybody curious. Now there’s just no excuse to miss out on the fun. So here we go:  Continue Reading

    November 12, 2014 • Sex, Sex & Dating Tips • Views: 11087

  • 6 Tips For Playing with Boobs That Will Drive Women Crazy

    Recently, I’ve been hearing some women are frustrated that men aren’t giving boobs enough attention.

    At first I thought, how can that be possible? There are millions of men jerking off to Sex.com’s big tit category on a daily basis. Why, when presented with boobs in real life, would men ignore what they’ve spent so much time coveting online?

    Then I remembered that most men are desperate to seem good at sex, so it seems likely that they’re skipping the tits and going straight for the clit. After all, most men think that the clitoris is an automatic orgasm button that will make their woman cum if pressed correctly.

    Guys, it don’t work like that. If you want to be good at sex, you need to stimulate all the erogenous zones, including the boobs. To help you earn that reputation of world’s greatest love machine, we are about to tell you the right way to play with boobs that will drive women crazy.

    Keep reading if you want to know how to play with boobs and be good at sex.  Continue Reading

    November 10, 2014 • Sex, Sex & Dating Tips • Views: 13954

  • Sex Pranks, Ranked

    I don’t know how others feel about this, but I’m a firm believer that sex should be fun. Of course, sex is inherently fun it’s the only acceptable time for two (or more) people to rub their genitals together.

    But you know what makes sex even more fun? WHEN YOU’RE FUNNY DURING SEX.

    That’s why I perform anywhere from 15 minutes to an hour of stand-up comedy when I’m having sex (the amount of stand-up comedy I do depends on how long I last and how many rounds we go). The only problem is that stand-up comedy is extremely hard and an average Joe like yourself cannot hope to ever get up on stage and underwhelm a room full of strangers with your prepared remarks. So instead, we’ll be focusing on sex pranks. You know, mischievous acts or practical jokes done during sex. Sure, it’s low-brow but who cares! They can be funny.

    In an effort to make having sex more fun by making it funny, here is our definitive ranking of SEX PRANKS from worst to best.  Continue Reading

    November 4, 2014 • Pictures & Vids, Porn, Porn Lists, Sex, Sex & Dating Tips • Views: 15565

  • Can Watching Lesbian POV Porn Make You Better At Eating Pussy?

    There are many genres of porn videos that I hold near and dear to my heart, but the one genre I never get tired of is POV porn.

    Why does POV porn take top spot in Chico Dusty‘s favorite genres of porn? Oh lots of reasons. For one, you often get a great view of a woman’s O-face (which is a huge turn-on). You always get to see big titties bouncing and big booties getting banged. But most of all, since I’m watching a hot pornstar get fucked from the male talent’s point of view, it makes it easier for me to imagine that it’s my dick doing the ol’ in-out.

    While heterosexual POV porn is something I’ve always turned to in times of desperate horniness, I’ve often overlooked lesbian POV porn simply because it’s harder for me, a man, to relate to it.  Continue Reading

    November 3, 2014 • Pictures & Vids, Porn, Sex, Sex & Dating Tips • Views: 14601

  • Halloween Costumes You Can Use For Sex Now That’s It’s Over

    Now that Halloween is over and everything is about Christmas.

    Oh great. Yet another holiday where you spend a ridiculous amount of money on things you and others will probably only use once. This year, I decided I wanted to take the time to remind you that the $$$ you spent on Halloween costumes isn’t completely wasted.

    In fact, this is one of my favourite holidays because those Halloween costumes are actually quite handy if you actually get yourself to use them.

    You can pretty much use all Halloween costumes as sex toys nowadays (you know, because costumes for girls are actually just lingerie), especially the one’s we listed last year on this list. Most of these are well known already, so this list is more of a reminder than mind blowing ideas.  Continue Reading

    November 3, 2014 • Sex & Dating Tips • Views: 8516

  • How Can I Have More Sex In A Night? – Chico’s Sex Advice

    This is Chico’s Sex Advice, a semi-regular column where I, Chico Dusty, apply my knowledge of all things sex to solve your sex problems, answer your sex questions and provide you with general sex advice.

    If you need sex advice or if you have a question about sex that needs answering, feel free to send an email to cdusty@sex.com and I’ll solve all your problems.

    Today, Big Daddy MK asks…

    “How can I go multiple rounds with my girlfriend? I’m usually good for two rounds in a period of a couple hours. But I was wondering if you could help me reach a higher number.”  Continue Reading

    November 3, 2014 • Sex, Sex & Dating Tips • Views: 11258

  • 7 Signs You Might Be The Sluttiest Person At The Halloween Party

    It’s Halloween and if you’re an adult (which you most definitely should be if you’re on this website), you know that Halloween is the one time of year where it’s totally acceptable to be as slutty as you want.

    That said, celebrating Halloween by acting and dressing as slutty as you want to be is a delicate balancing act. You obviously want to indulge your inner slut because everyone is costumed and it’s easier to get away with blowing the biggest cock you find in the middle of dance floor…but you also don’t want to be the sluttiest person at the Halloween party because even with a costume, everyone gossips about the sluttiest person at the Halloween party until the new year.

    So to help you slut it up tonight without going too far, here are 7 signs you might be the sluttiest person at the Halloween party!  Continue Reading

    October 31, 2014 • Pictures & Vids, Porn, Sex, Sex & Dating Tips • Views: 17898

  • Fifty Shades of…Health? Kinky sex is good for you!

    Coleen Singer is a writer, photographer, film editor and all-around geeky gal at Sssh.com, where she often waxes eloquent about sex, porn, sex toys, censorship, the literary and pandering evils of Fifty Shades of Grey and other topics not likely to be found on the Pulitzer Prize shortlist. She is also the editor and curator of EroticScribes.com. When she is not doing all of the above, Singer is an amateur stock-car racer and enjoys modifying vintage 1970s cars for the racetrack. Oh, she also likes porn.

    std001 Fifty Shades of...Health? Kinky sex is good for you!

    Well let’s just file this under “Who knew? But I’m not surprised!”

    Menshealth.com shared a study published in The Journal of Sexual Medicine that shows a correlation between mental well being and getting yoru freak on. 900 people who practice some form of BDSM were interviewed and shown to be more happy and healthy than their vanilla counterparts, showing more evidence of general mental well being, confidence and security in their relationships.  Continue Reading

    October 29, 2014 • Sex, Sex & Dating Tips • Views: 6589