Because we started to run out of sex positions for you to try in our recurring sex tip,Try This Sex Position, we’re starting another sex tip series on the Sex.com Blog called Good Touch: Your Guide to Erogenous Zones. (We are open to changing the name. Maybe to Know Your Zone? Please suggest something in the comments)
A lot of men think that the best way to turn a woman on is to jump straight to the clitoris and start playing with it. Playing with the clitoris is something you eventually want to do but it’s so sensitive that playing with it right away could be more uncomfortable than arousing. So if the clitoris is off limits, what the heck are you supposed to do to put a lady in the mood?
Oprah says that good foreplay starts in the morning. Make her breakfast, tell her she looks nice, etc. But that’s all well and good for Oprah, but what are we supposed to do when the foreplay escalates to touching and we can’t flick the clit like we’re used to.
Luckily, the human body is covered in secret erogenous zones that when properly stimulated can arouse women with orgasmic results. Last time you learned that a woman’s back was one of her secret erogenous zones. Today, we’ll be looking one of the weirdest erogenous zones known to man: the back of the knee.
The back of the knee?
Who in their life has ever remember the back of the knee?
It seems about as important as the inside of your elbow. How could it possibly be an erogenous zone?
Well think about it this way, has the back of your knee ever been tickled? Isn’t it one of the most intense places to be tickled? That’s because the skin behind the knees is very thin and soft. It’s more responsive than other areas because the nerves are so close to touching the surface.
So if a tickling behind the knee can make a person squirm and squeal with anguish and delight at the same time, a lick or a kiss will send the same tickling sensation through her body, but with an erotic twist.
The back of the knee is definitely one of the weirdest erogenous zones, not just because it’s such a forgotten part of the body, but also it’s difficult to access. One way to get close to this erogenous zone is offer your lady a foot rub and slowly work your way up to the back of the knee. Or you could stroke her thigh and explore around the knee. You may not even get an opportunity to get close to this zone. But when the opportunity is there, you better take it.
Two things to remember before you start trying to lick and kiss every woman behind the knees.
- Everyone is different. Most people have erogenous zones behind the knee, but not everyone. If they’re not responding to your stimulation behind the knee, move on.
- Never go straight for the clitoris. An orgasm is the release of sexual tension. An orgasm is the fireworks at the end of the show. The grand finale. But the grand finale is nothing if you haven’t built up to it. Exploring a woman’s different erogenous zones builds the sexual tension, which will then mean great sex for both parties.