How To Ask A Girl Out – Ask Marni by Sex.com
School is almost back in session and if you’re in college that means you’ve got mixers, parties, keggers, shows, and classes where you will be surrounded by beautiful young people.
To make sure your sex life is as fruitful as your academic life, Sex.com’s Wing Girl, Marni, is back with hot dating tips specifically for college students.
This week, “James” asks Marni how to ask a girl out:
I am having trouble deciding on how to approach this girl that I am interested in at school.
We are in the same class but I sit on the other side of the room. I said hi to her once, and she smiled and said hi back.
I definitely feel the attraction and it’s very strong. We have both checked each other out on multiple occasions with our glances meeting eye to eye at certain points. I was thinking of emailing her or something.
Please advise I feel as though I cannot wait any longer.
Marni answers :
James, it seems like you are letting the situation put a lot of pressure on you which making you overanalyzed and anxious. At least, that’s what I’m getting from you email to me. I’m going to tell you this and you may not like it. You’re ready ?
Just because look your way, it doesn’t mean she’s interested in you. It could mean a million of things. It could mean that you keep starring at her and she’s looking over to see if you’ve stopped. I could mean she’s being friend with a guy that looks her way. I mean it ‘s only polite to smile at someone who’s smiling at you. Right ?
And, it could mean she’s crazy turn on by you and has been waiting for you to come over to rip her clothes off and bang her in front of the all class.
You see, the only way you can actually know if there is an traction it’s by approaching her, seeing if you like her and if you do : asking her out.
And if you don’t do that soon you’re going automatically eliminate option number three from ever happening.
Here what you need to know about women.
We know when you are into us. At first, you are opened and ready to be approched and asked out ; then if you delay asking us out we slowly start to doubt your masculinity, and the attraction decreases in a very setty pace . The longer you wait the crippier you become until you reach a point of no return.
Here is what I want you to do so that you don’t fall into the crip category and turning this women off for good. You’re going to ask her out, cause that you want right ? You want to take her out on a date and to get to know her better and see if there’s something there or you may just want to have sex with her.
But both and goals have to start with asking her out.
Here’s a few tips :
Tip number #1 :
Do not hide behind an indirect and low confidency email : talk to her. Show her that you are confident man who doesn’t need to hid behind a computer.
Tip number #2 :
Be direct and ask for what you want. And, what you want is : a date.
The only way to get what you want is by asking for it.
So if you want to get to know her better, suggest to getting to know her better.
If you want to take her out for a drink, ask her out for a drink. If you want to kiss her ; kiss her.
If she doesn’t want to do any of the above ; she’ll let you know but let her do the rejecting instead of you rejecting yourself.
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