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How Do I Increase My Sexual Stamina – Chico’s Sex Advice

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You’re going to need it for Valentine’s Day

Welcome back to another edition of Chico’s Sex Advice where I use all my expertise as a sexpert to answer any questions my beloved readers may have about sex.

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Today’s question comes from Dave. Dave asks:

“Is there anything I can do to increase my sexual stamina? I feel like I don’t last long enough in the bedroom to give my girlfriend orgasms. Any advice to offer?”

Excellent question Dave! There are lots of ways you can increase your sexual stamina and your timing is absolutely perfect because Friday is Valentine’s Day and you’re going to need as much sexual stamina as possible.  

A lot of people will recommend penis numbing sprays and or creams. While these will numb the sensations of sex, I don’t think you should use them. What makes sex so awesome is the feeling. And if your junk is totally numb, you’re missing out on the best part of sex. Sure, you’ll last longer but you also won’t feel anything. If the trade off seems worth it to you, then by all means use the numbing products. However, I’d like to recommend some techniques to boost your sexual stamina that won’t leave you numb.

According to an old study in The Journal of Sexual Medicine, men who used condoms with lube were able to last longer than usual. Unfortunately, I can’t explain why these men were able to last longer in bed but it’s worth a try, right?

If you choose to go the condoms and lube route, let me tell you that you should not use oil-based lubes. Oil-based lubes can degrade the latex and that increases the chance of the condom breaking.

If the condom and lube method isn’t working, I recommend masturbating more.

Why will masturbating more help increase your sexual stamina? Think of your penis as a loaded firearm that can only shoot its ammo ten or so times a day. Each time it gets fired, it becomes harder to fire. Does that make sense?

Maybe it’s just me, but for me, the first orgasm of the day always comes the quickest. I don’t know whether or not I’m really “low on ammo” or if I’m not preoccupied about cumming quickly because I’ve already came, but either way it should help you last longer in bed.

Not only that but masturbating will help you get to know your body a bit better. When you’re getting off all alone, you’ll be able to focus more on how your body reacts to certain stimulation. You’ll be more familiar with the sensations and warning signs of your impending orgasm, which will help you maintain control of your orgasms during sex.

Once your familiar with your orgasm warning signs thanks to more masturbation and you feel one coming on, what I recommend doing is pulling out and going down on your girlfriend. I feel like this will work well for you since you want to give your girlfriend orgasms. Pulling out will cut off stimulation to your penis, therefore solving the stamina question. You’ll last longer if your penis isn’t constantly stimulated. Plus, going down on your girlfriend during sex to stimulate her clit with your tongue will bring her closer to orgasm.

The last thing you need to do is lower your expectations. Most men think that the only way to give their partners orgasms is to last as long as possible. Not true. The key is maximizing passion through lots of foreplay, oral sex, manual stimulation, changing positions, and spontaneity rather than just lasting as long as possible. Does that make sense? Quality over quantity.

Dave, I hope this helped. I hope that this Valentine’s Day you’re able to strike a balance between strong sexual stamina and passion so that you and your girlfriend have some great sex.

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