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You all know what’s about to happen (masturbation)

A few weeks ago I told you about a very uncomfortable conversation I had with a grown woman who not only had never masturbated but was disgusted by the idea of masturbation. Before we go and vilify this woman, just know that she comes from a very traditional background, one that doesn’t look too kindly on masturbation. She wasn’t raised to be a sex-positive person and that’s not her fault.

As a sex-positive person, it’s difficult for me to understand a negative view on all things sex (including masturbation). I often forget that not everyone is comfortable or open about sexuality. Realistically, it’s their loss because sex is great and approaching sex with openness only enhances your understanding. And the more you understand sex, the better it is.

Years ago, my neighbors were a very nice Iranian couple. They were trying to get pregnant but couldn’t. Given they could hear dulcet sex moans coming from my apartment all the time, they asked me for some sex advice. Based on my experience with this Iranian couple, I would say that sex education in Iran is sub-par because they weren’t really having sex. The lady would tightly close her legs and the man would penetrate the thighs, rubbing his penis on her labia but never actually penetrating the vagina.

You see they come from a sex-negative culture (as far as I know) and thus their lack of discussion about meant they weren’t having sex to the fullest of their potential.

Anyways, my conversation with the lady that never tried masturbation made me wonder, why do we masturbate?

Who better to ask than the people that read this porn and sex-centric blog? Surely you have all tried masturbation at least once. So I ran a poll to determine what was the reason for masturbation.

As it turns out, people don’t need much of a reason at for masturbation. 

Of the 1,200 people that voted, 511 (42%) said that they masturbate because it feels good.

And they’re right. Masturbation does feel good. Orgasms feel good and I would argue that masturbation is the easiest way to get an orgasm.

This was the first thing that came to mind when I saw the results:

I realize that this song is really about Rock ‘N Roll but the chorus can just as easily be applied to masturbation:

If it feels good do it even if you shouldn’t

Dont let people mess you around

Feels good do it even if you shouldn’t

Nobody can mess you around

How can anyone argue with this logic? It feels good. So to the anonymous, anti-masturbation lady I met weeks ago, here is your answer as to why people masturbate: BECAUSE IT FEELS GOOD.

And unlike other things that feel good like smoking or drinking, masturbation isn’t dangerous or harmful to your body. Masturbation might be the only guilty pleasure that actually has benefits for your body.

Regular masturbation can help prevent erectile dysfunction, cancer, and premature ejaculation. And if that’s not enough, masturbation can also improve your mood and increase your immune system.

Earlier I referred to masturbation as a guilty pleasure but it really shouldn’t be. It feels good and it’s good for you! Normally things that are good for you are chores and feel terrible, so be thankful something that feels as good as masturbation is also good for you.

So now go masturbate!

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  • Dmitry

    If it makes you happy
    It can’t be that bad
    If it makes you happy
    Then why the hell are you so sad…

    (C) Sheryl Crow

  • http://logicversusemotion.blogspot.com Eroscott

    As I have said before (not here, I think) solo sex is better than no sex at all.

    My first wife and I separated because she was sex negative and I have always been sex positive. Logic versus emotion (and religion–which is possibly the biggest brake on enjoying sex for the sake of sex–is all emotion and very little logic.)

    I turned 66 years old today and I’m still masturbating.

    There are only two logical reasons to have sex: 1) because you want children and 2) because it feels good. (Like most people in your survey said.) If it didn’t feel good then we wouldn’t have 7 billion, plus people on the planet.

    Finally (whew!) Solo sex is safe sex and has no emotional entanglements with other people. Although I still think having sex with other people is better than solo sex.

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