Picture this: it’s Friday night and you’ve been grinding away at work for the last week. You’re tired but you want to relish in the glory that is the weekend. Some of your friends may be hitting the bars, but you? You’ve got a first date.
In a world where dating sites, hook up apps and general sexiness are rampant, it’s easy to lose sight of what some would call a dead art form: the classic platonic date. Some would say it’s nothing more than a vessel for sex and it’s hard to disagree with that fact. Sex is pretty fantastic and first date sex is among some of the most sexy situations you can place yourself in.
So how do you decipher what’s a booty call and what’s an actual date? Both could potentially end in sex, which is awesome, but there’s a lot of grey area to take in to consideration.
A booty call is much more tangible than a date and it’s likely that you’ve already fucked before if you’re on a booty call. There’s no real reason to be together other than to fuck, and the sex tends to come quickly as you’re both there for one reason. It lacks that romantic feel which tends to go hand in hand with seduction and love.
A real date on the other hand is something you prep for with a fresh outfit and maybe even a dinner reservation. Spending money isn’t a must but you’re much more likely to drop a few bucks on a date than on a booty call. The reality of a date is that you’re there to enjoy the other person’s company and share some time and ideas. It’s a bonding process which can be very sexy or have no sexual connotation at all – it really depends on who your date is and their personality.
I personally suck at dating, but I do love first date sex. It’s a rare feat for those who can pull it off and there are a couple telltale signs that your first date is going to eventually end up in some steamy sexual exploration: Continue Reading