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  • 9 Sex Tips Guaranteed To Make Her Cum Like Crazy

    Let me start by saying that good sex is not depended on orgasms. Sure, it’s obviously nicer when both parties get to cum one or more times throughout the night, but you shouldn’t get down on yourself if it doesn’t happen!

    That said, GREAT sex is when you can make your girl cum like crazy. Like can’t walk straight for a few days because she came so hard. If you want to have explosive sex and make your girl cum like crazy, try these 9 sex tips that will help your girl cum like crazy.  Continue Reading

    November 14, 2014 • Sex, Sex & Dating Tips • Views: 27096

  • TLC Teams Up With “Virgin Coaches” To Teach You How To Have Sex

    What happens when you put two Christian sex educators with a TV crew and a bunch of engaged virgin couples together so that you can film a bunch of virgins learn how to have sex? QUALITY TELEVISION HAPPENS.

    At least quality television is what TLC hopes will happen because filming virgins learn how to have sex is the premise of their new show Virgin CoachesContinue Reading

    November 13, 2014 • Sex, Sex News • Views: 7648

  • Red Velvet’s Complete Guide to Lesbian Scissoring

    You all watch porn, so you guys definitely know that lesbians do all sorts of awesome sex acts and are not limited to just scissoring. However, not everybody does and I often get the question “So you scissor?” when telling people I’m a lesbian.

    Generally, it’s a little rude to ask people about their sex lives when you first meet them, so I usually just say “Sometimes, how about you?” and move on to a different topic, but in all seriousness, despite what a lot of people who know nothing about lesbian sex seem to think, not a lot of lesbian scissor.

    Why? Because it’s actually kind of hard when you get down to it and if done wrong, can be quite awkward too (but that’s true for most sex acts anyway). So if you’ve wanted to scissor or just wanted to know about it but have just never known how, well you’re in luck, because you all have me. As a lesbian who has done some scissoring myself and has found it enjoyable, I feel it is my duty to provide a guide to scissoring for lesbians, bisexuals and anybody curious. Now there’s just no excuse to miss out on the fun. So here we go:  Continue Reading

    November 12, 2014 • Sex, Sex & Dating Tips • Views: 11081

  • 6 Tips For Playing with Boobs That Will Drive Women Crazy

    Recently, I’ve been hearing some women are frustrated that men aren’t giving boobs enough attention.

    At first I thought, how can that be possible? There are millions of men jerking off to’s big tit category on a daily basis. Why, when presented with boobs in real life, would men ignore what they’ve spent so much time coveting online?

    Then I remembered that most men are desperate to seem good at sex, so it seems likely that they’re skipping the tits and going straight for the clit. After all, most men think that the clitoris is an automatic orgasm button that will make their woman cum if pressed correctly.

    Guys, it don’t work like that. If you want to be good at sex, you need to stimulate all the erogenous zones, including the boobs. To help you earn that reputation of world’s greatest love machine, we are about to tell you the right way to play with boobs that will drive women crazy.

    Keep reading if you want to know how to play with boobs and be good at sex.  Continue Reading

    November 10, 2014 • Sex, Sex & Dating Tips • Views: 13950

  • 9 Of The Best Surfaces/Furniture to Have Sex On At Home

    I had a little bit of an embarrassing moment this past weekend, that I shall not explain in detail, but instead, will use to extend a little bit of advice: Don’t have sex on a hammock unless you have the balance of a gold medal gymnast, or you’ll end up bruised and limping and not in the good way.

    So basically, that got me thinking. What are the best surfaces/furniture to have sex on at home? You betcha a hammock isn’t going to be on this list.

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    October 14, 2014 • Sex, Sex & Dating Tips, TOP 10's • Views: 12977

  • 6 Reasons Why Sex With MILFs Is The Best

    MILFs! Everybody wants to fuck them, right? I mean, “I’d Like To Fuck” makes up 3/4 of the acronym.

    Well, according to Time Magazine’s feature on Christian Rudder’s Dataclysm, it seems that MILFs may not be as beloved as we thought.

    Rudder, a co-founder of OkCupid and Harvard-educated data scientist, analyzed millions of records to figure out how we scramble for love online. Though analyzing OkCupid and other dating site browsing data is sure to only reveal the worst in people, there was one insight that I found deeply unsettling.

    According to Rudder’s research, men of all ages are by far looking for women in their early 20’s. That’s not the unsettling part. The OkCupid data revealed that while men often set their age filters for women into their 30’s and beyond, rarely do they contact a woman over 29.


    While that in itself is deeply unsettling, I’m mostly disturbed by the stupidity of the men looking for love online for ignoring an age group that is widely regarded to have the hottest sex imaginable.

    In order to help the MILFs and Mature babes of OkCupid get laid, here are 6 reasons why sex with MILFs is the bestContinue Reading

    September 10, 2014 • Porn, Porn Lists, Sex, Sex & Dating Tips, TOP 10's • Views: 26210

  • Do’s And Don’ts of Making Amateur Porn

    Take a moment and ask yourself “Self, what makes a great porno flick?”

    Is it the stars?

    The mood?

    Is it the simulated fantasy of putting yourself in the movie so that you can furiously blow a load all over yourself before snapping back to reality?

    Whatever your fancy may be, the basic recipe is almost always the same. Take two or more people, set the tone with some sort of pre-sex eroticism to get everyone all hot and heavy then get down to the nitty gritty. Badda boom you’ve got yourself instant porno, right?

    While the composition of porn may be similar in nature, it’s not that simple. The men and women who film, produce, act in and edit the pornos you watch are professionals and have a very distinct eye for what’s hot and what’s not. These veterans of the industry have learned from the errors of others in the past and provide you with a quality adult product day in and day out.

    I’ve made more than a few homemade porn flicks in my time, some of which might even be in the amateur section of but none really turned out all that great. Sure, you’d get a good scene sometimes or maybe a snippet of 30 seconds that is crazy hot, but most amateurs suck at filming porn. That’s why they’re still amateurs.

    Fear not! With some basic direction and a little practice, you can make your own homemade studio quality porno for all to enjoy for years to come!  Continue Reading

    September 9, 2014 • Sex, Sex & Dating Tips • Views: 7306

  • Help! I Want To Fuck My Friend’s Brother – Chico’s Sex Advice

    Welcome back to another edition of Chico’s Sex Advice where I use all my expertise as a sexpert to answer any questions my beloved readers may have about sex.

    If you need sex advice or if you have a question about sex that needs answering, feel free to send an email to OR use the contact form and I’ll answer as quickly as possible.

    Today’s question comes from E.Sweetie. She writes:

    “Hi Chico. My best friend’s younger brother just moved back to our home town. When he left, he was a gangly teen, but now he’s returned a full-grown and gorgeous man. I’ve been in a bit of a sexual slump recently because there are hardly any attractive single men in our town. What I wanna know is, is it wrong that I want to sleep with my friend’s brother?”


    Is it wrong that you want to fuck your friend’s brother? No. There’s nothing wrong with wanting to fuck your friend’s brother.  Continue Reading

    September 5, 2014 • Sex, Sex & Dating Tips • Views: 18724

  • Five Oral Sex Charts You Wish You Had Seen In High School

    Cause honestly, the stuff they teach you in high school sex ed nowadays is so inadequate, some people still think foreplay is optional.

    I have previously giving my own oral sex tips, which you can go back and look at here, but you can never know too much about oral sex, right? And anyway, I find that diagrams are both more fun and a hell of a lot more helpful than written sex tips. Some of these handy diagrams even gave me some ideas.  Continue Reading

    August 31, 2014 • Sex, Sex & Dating Tips • Views: 25989

  • 5 Different Role Play Scenarios

    Here at we like to spice things up fairly frequently. That is obviously not to say we don’t appreciate the classics, because of course we do… but when it comes to role play scenarios, I think it’s time to add some sugar and spice and mix up the lists that usually only add “teacher/student”, “secretary/boss”, or “nurse/patient” as plausible and fun role play scenarios (our holiday-themed 4th of July role play scenarios, Christmas role play scenarios and Thanksgiving role play scenarios notwithstanding, nor our Domination role play scenarios). So here we go:  Continue Reading

    August 28, 2014 • Sex, Sex & Dating Tips, TOP 10's • Views: 13639

  • Having Sex While On Your Period – Yay or Nay?

    There’s an unspoken rule amongst many men about ‘that time of the month.’  If your girlfriend is on her period, that’s your cue to break out a book or newspaper in bed for a week or so.  It’s kind of understandable – having sex while on one’s period can be an extremely messy activity.  Man’s reluctance to get in the menstrual mix has led, in turn, to many women remarking that ‘we can’t have sex, I’m on my period.’

    But why does this stigma exist?  I’ve personally had sex with people on their periods plenty of times, and, as long as your partner isn’t ‘flowin like crazy, it’s not a big deal.  In a way, I actually find it to be quite arousing, if the circumstances are right.

    So, as you’ve probably already guessed, I’m a staunch supporter of period sex.  But beyond any personal quirks of mine, there’s some actual objective benefits to fucking ’round that time of the month.

    Nerve recently took a very detailed look at the pros and cons of sex during menstruation, but here’s the Coles Notes for y’all lazy motherfuckers.  Continue Reading

    August 1, 2014 • Sex, Sex & Dating Tips, Sexual Health • Views: 31957

  • Sex Tips from 1894 Are Really Stupid and Make Sex Sound Lame

    But newsflash, sex ain’t actually lame. Still, if the idea that sex is lame is being continually drilled into your brain by the media, you’d probably start to believe it. Like how I believe that 9/11 was an inside job after watching ‘Spare Change’ on Youtube 800 times consecutively.

    You know how you read sex tips in magazines like Cosmo and the like, and you think to yourself, “None of these sex tips sound even remotely arousing and in fact most of them are completely ridiculous and sound painful/disgusting?” Well, though I admittedly don’t read Cosmo very often, the above question is what’s usually running through my mind when I do.

    It turns out that horrible sex advice pointers have been doled out for over a century, and probably even further back than that. Cosmo, the magazine I was just dissing, recently posted some sex tips from 1894, and they’re actually pretty interesting. It seems like back then, women were trying their goddamn fucking hardest to hoodwink their husbands into never having sex.

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    July 22, 2014 • Funny, Sex, Sex & Dating Tips, Stuff • Views: 8316

  • Tantric Sex For Beginners!

    Tantric sex. What is it?

    For the longest time, the only way I could explain tantric sex was, “That thing that Sting does instead of reuniting with The Police.” Another common way of explaining tantric sex would be, “It’s like sex that lasts for hours and hours. You know, like how Sting has sex.”

    But tantric sex is more than sex that lasts for hours or something that Sting does. It’s a way of approaching sex and intimacy that emphasizes a deeper connection with your partner. Doesn’t that sound intriguing?

    Well I hope so because you’re about get an introduction to tantric sex!

    As mentioned above, most people believe that tantric sex is lovemaking that lasts forever. And while tantric sex does tend to last longer than your average “stick it in and see what happens” sex, most of that time isn’t spent on the sex part of tantric sex.

    To be more precise, Tantra and tantric sex is slow lovemaking that doesn’t always result in orgasm. The etymology of word “Tantra” is Sanskrit for “woven together”. And thus when you are having tantric sex, you are not only weaving together man and woman, but your physical and spiritual self.

    So how does it work?

    First thing, breathe together. Breathing together is your introduction to TANTRA.

    Sit on the bed facing each other. Stare into each other’s eyes and hold the gaze. Clothing is optional.

    While you stare into each other’s eyes, start to synchronize your breathing until a rhythm forms and you get lost in. They inhale, you exhale, they exhale, you inhale. This leaves you both breathing each other. Pretty sensual and spiritual right?

    Once the breathing rhythm is created and you’re lost in each other’s eyes, initiate intimacy by either kissing without touching or touching without kissing. I know how confusing that sounds but it’s really quite simple. Start with a full-body massage, while taking note of their reaction to your touch in all the places of their body. Then have them do the same for you. BUT NO KISSING!

    But if you’re not a full-body massage type, try the kissing without touching. This means only one of you kisses the other while they give themselves over completely to the one doing the kissing. The kisser explores the kisssee’s mouth with their tongue and then the reverse.


    Then it’s just a matter of breaking down sexual taboos. Step out of your sexual comfort zone. Step out of your sexual routine. Doing this will have a liberating effect that leaves you open to new forms of pleasure. What’s the best way to start? How about talking?

    Now, I don’t mean dirty talking. I mean a frank, uninhibited discussion about sex. Maybe start with a post-coital compliment. “Damn girl I love the way yo ass be bouncing.” You know, sweet-talk. Take it from there and just see how much your sex life improves.

    Now these are just the steps for beginners. Tantra is a 5,000 year old practice that you simply cannot master in a single blog post. Mind you, follow these instructions and you’ll be on your way to erotic enlightenment.

    Let us know if your introduction to tantric sex was a success in the comments! If it was, we’ll start teaching you more advanced tantric sex techniques!


    July 18, 2014 • Sex, Sex & Dating Tips • Views: 25638

  • How To Sex Chat With A Long Distance Girlfriend – Chico’s Sex Advice

    Welcome back to another edition of Chico’s Sex Advice where I use all my expertise as a sexpert to answer any questions my beloved readers may have about sex.

    If you need sex advice or if you have a question about sex that needs answering, feel free to send an email to OR use the contact form and I’ll answer as quickly as possible.

    Today’s question comes from JOHNNY ANONYMOUS:

    “Hi Chico. I was just wondering how I should ask my long distance girlfriend to have a sex chat with me? You know, I want to ask her in a way that won’t be rude or offensive to her. Thanks!”


    How does one broach the topic of engaging in a sex chat with a significant other that’s hundreds of miles away?

    Let me start by commending you for committing to a long distance relationship. Anyone who has been in a long distance relationship (including myself) will tell anyone that opts for a long distance relationship in lieu of breaking up that you’re making a terrible decision. Even relationships where you and your significant other live in the same city can be a massive undertaking. Long distance only amplifies the workload and rarely yields the same rewards.

    Aside from the few and far between days you spend together while in a long distance relationship (which are often amazing because it’s whole days having non-stop sex), the majority of your time together is spent on the phone, on Skype or whatever your preferred method of communication having the most mundane conversations about the daily going-ons of your life. More often than not (at least in my own experience), you end up cancelling plans with friends just to talk about nothing with your significant other as a means of proving you’re still faithful to your partner. And over time, you start resent your significant other because all you end up doing is keeping each other updated on how your lives are growing apart.

    So how can we avoid this resentment and the feeling that you’re growing apart? Well, in my mind the simplest solution is to make it more fun and worth your while with a sex chat.

    But how to bring it up?

    If I were you, I’d start by dropping hints in your conversation that you’d like to turn this daily update into a sex chat. Say something like, “Everyone’s away for the weekend. It’s so lonely in this apartment. What would you do with me if you were here with me right now?” And then if she replies with something like, “I’d fuck you in every room of your apartment. We’d fuck on every fuckable surface in your home.” She’s taken the bait and before you know it, you’re having the sex chat you’ve longed for.

    Of course, your girlfriend might be the shy type and may not engage in a sex chat so freely. If that’s the case, wait until you’re having a late-night Skype session. The idea here is that she’ll be on Skype in some comfortable bedtime clothes like a tank top or crop top or a big billowing T-shirt. If she’s dressed as such, remind her how much you miss her…specifically her body. Then beg for a little tease. You never know, she might be super flattered and let you see some titty. From there you can escalate into a more serious sex chat.

    But the best way to ask your long distance girlfriend to have a sex chat with you is simply by being direct. Just ask her straight up, “Would you ever consider having a sex chat with me?” Though you will struggle to ask this question due to its awkward nature, it’s honestly the best way to find out if a sex chat will ever be on the table. Chances are that she’ll be interested because she’s in this relationship too. She has to put up with making her schedule around keeping in contact with you as well with little reward too. It’s not rude to gauge her interest.

    Maybe she’ll be receptive to the idea of webcamming but not phone sex. Maybe she’ll want to sext and nothing more. Sexuality is a highly individual thing that can be manifested and expressed in a number of different ways. That’s why you need to take a deep breath, muster up some confidence, throw caution to the wind and ask if she’s ever considered having a sex chat. If so, you can guys can then work out the terms of your sex chatting. But as Wayne Gretzky said…you miss 100% of the shots you don’t take. So take this shot and you might just score!

    As long as you’re not forcing a sex chat, I have a feeling that she’ll be receptive to the idea simply because it will help stoke the fires of your passionate relationship. Right?

    Worse case scenario, you can cite growing apart and resentment I spoke about earlier in this post. But first and foremost, gauge her interest and explain to her why engaging in some playful sex chats is something you think could help maintain a healthy long distance relationship. Just because you’re miles away doesn’t mean your sex lives need to take a hit.

    I love answering your sex questions! If you have a sex question for me:

    Send an email to


    Use the contact submission form.


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    July 10, 2014 • Sex, Sex & Dating Tips • Views: 25926

  • 20 Sex Myths Debunked!

    As I’ve said many times before, I always knew that the general population had massive misconceptions about sex, but I never knew just how it was until I started writing sex advice for

    Every day, I get thousands of emails from people (almost all men) desperate to find out what they’re doing wrong. Except 99% of the time, there’s nothing wrong with what they’re doing. The problem is that they’ve been taught sex myths and then unfortunately judge their own sex lives and sexual performance on these sex myths.

    A common question our male readers like ask me is, “How do I last longer in bed? It only took me 30 minutes to cum the last time I had sex and I’ve never been more embarrassed in my life. I’m so ashamed that I might never have sex again. Can you help me with my premature ejaculation problem?”

    OK, maybe I’m exaggerating just a tiny bit, but most men write to me thinking that lasting a half an hour in bed is unusual. Truth is, thirty minutes is a long time to last in bed. The average ideal duration of sex is said to be anywhere from seven to fifteen minutes. Also, it’s important for me to point out that premature ejaculation has no universal time constraint. Premature ejaculation is all about perception. If you cum all of a sudden at 5 minutes or 25 minutes without warning, then that’s what constitutes premature ejaculation.

    Even worse are those of you who think that you’re masters of sex when really you’re just perpetuating sex myths and no one has the heart to tell you that what you’re doing is totally wrong.

    Why are sex myths so pervasive? Why does nobody know the real facts about sex? Because even in this day and age, when you can find local singles to have sex with through a few swipes of an app, talking about sex is still taboo. And that’s a damn shame.

    To help those of you who have had their confidence and self-esteem shattered by sex myths and for those of you living in blissful ignorance because all you know are the sex myths and not the facts, Mental Floss partnered with professor of pediatrics at Indiana University’s School of Medicine and author of Don’t Put That In There Dr. Aaron Carroll to debunk 20 of the most common sex myths.  Continue Reading

    July 10, 2014 • Sex, Sexual Health • Views: 32039

  • Another “Does Penis Size Matter?” Opinion but This Time From a Lesbian

    I feel like people have beaten this topic to death and yet, I still recently got asked the question: Can I please a woman with a below average penis?

    Eek. At first I thought, maybe I’m not the person to ask because I’m a lesbian but then I thought, WAIT I’m actually the best person to ask because I’M A LESBIAN… which basically means that pretty much all of the sex I have is without a penis and I still managed to please my women. (I say “pretty much” all of the sex I have is without a penis because sometimes I feel particularly adventurous and bring out thestrap on)

    Now let me tell you why I think the number one reason that having a below average penis isn’t the biggest deal in the world: If I can get the job done just with the three inches that are my fingers, I’m pretty sure a below average penis can do it no matter how small.

    A woman’s g-spot is only about 2-3 inches into her vagina and when it comes to penetration, the g-spot is the magic button. So, considering the average size of a penis is 5.5-6.3 inches, most men have more than enough to please a woman. In fact, that is even enough to hit her cervix, which hurts if you’re not careful! So basically, even if the length of your penis is considered rather small and below average, you still have what it takes to get her to cum during penetration.

    Keep in mind that even if your penis was 12 inches, some women still can’t cum from penetration. So don’t neglect the clitoris. Never neglect the clitoris.

    A final note: If you need help finding the g-spot, just know that it’s a small textured bump you’ll be able to feel.

    July 7, 2014 • Sex, Sex & Dating Tips • Views: 18612

  • 4 Tips You Need to Find a Female Threesome Partner

    So your girlfriend wants a threesome with another woman. Congratulations buddy, you have hit the jackpot. Seriously, you have. Some men will wait their whole life and never come to that moment.

    Now to just find a woman, right? Well before you start trying, I have 4 suggestions for you.

    Don’t do it on social networking/dating sites unless it’s specifically made for that.

      I do not know ANYBODY who has scored after messaging a bunch of lesbians on plenty of fish or anything of the sort. It sounds too creepy when you’re messaging someone about a threesome and most people on dating websites are looking for actual relationships, unfortunately.


    Don’t suggest one of her friends if she doesn’t. Even if she does, be wary.

      It might ruin your chance of a threesome if she thinks you’re just trying to sleep with one of her friends without calling it cheating, seriously. And just in general, if you’re planning on doing it with someone you know, make sure it’s someone you know it won’t be awkward with after. (Or someone you don’t want to sleep with again… because that’ll cause a ton of problems as you can imagine.)


    If you’re going to approach someone at a bar, do it together.

      A lot of the time a couple will begin with sending the girl or guy to flirt with their potential threesome partner and then slowly lead into it. That doesn’t work because you spend a lot of time for no reason if the person is going to get their hopes up and just end up being weirded out. If you approach the person together and offer to buy them a drink, that weeds out those who are going to say no right away


    Find a fetish party in your area! 

      This is actually the most fun of the four suggestions which is why I left it for last. Believe it or not, there are parties dedicated to fetishes AND threesomes. Fortunately I live in a big city, so there are a ton here. A quick google search should help you out there and hopefully it’ll be the same for you.

    Best of luck, my friends!

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    July 7, 2014 • Sex, Sex & Dating Tips • Views: 15305

  • Try These Summer Sex Positions!

    As temperatures rise across the country, sex gets sweatier and somewhat uncomfortable. It’s hard to feel sexy when your skin is all sticky from humidity and it only gets worse when intertwined with your lover’s body. But should the high temperatures stop us from having amazing sex? ABSOLUTELY NOT.

    That’s why today, I’m going to tell you about some hot weather sex positions so that you can have amazing sex without succumbing to heat stroke. Get ready to try these summer sex positions!


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    No pool? No A/C? NO PROBLEM!

    First, fill your bathtub with comfortably cool water. Then ladies, face the faucet and kneel down in the water. With the cool water still running from the faucet, inch your way up to the stream and grab both sides of the bathtub for balance. Once ladies have assumed this position, guys slide in behind your lady and enter her from behind. As the man thrusts, ladies guide the running water with your hand to your crotch and legs to keep cool.


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    Place a fan at the head of your bed, aiming it downwards so that a breeze is cooling the bed (or couch, or desk, whatever suits your fancy). Then lay your man down on his back. Once he’s lying down, climb on top of him and fill yourself with his member. Instead of the usual riding motion you’d do in the cowgirl sex position, just swivel your hips around in a circle as if you were hula hooping. You won’t heat up as much because the motion is minimal, but your arousal will be through the roof.


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    Missionary sex without getting too hot and sticky? YES! Start in the missionary position. Guys, once you’ve entered your lady in the missionary position, move about two inches higher so that your pelvis is in-line with hers. Guys, rock back and forth while ladies, you thrust your pelvis upward, keeping in sync with him, so your clitoris is hitting his penis’s base. The distance between you will keep you from overheating…until the explosive orgasm arrives. Then you’re going to get real hot.


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    Imagine if your two favorite sex positions, doggy style and the spoon, came together for one incredible sex position that was perfect for hot weather because it minimizes full body contact. Well, it’s not just a crazy dream…it’s a reality! And it’s called the Linguini sex position. Ladies, start by lying on your side. Guys, kneel directly behind your lady’s butt, leaning ever-so slightly over her body. Then guys, push one of your knees between your lady’s legs, positioning your body so you can penetrate her. Place one hand on her back for support and have at it!


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    Place a fan at your feet, facing upwards towards so that the cool air flows to the two of you seated in the chair. Guys, find a tall-backed chair, pad it with pillows, and sit down. Ladies must now give the penis an erection either by engaging in some oral sex or grinding on your man, giving him a lap dance. Once the penis is hard, ladies straddle the penis and lean back, placing your hands on his kness for support. Extend your legs, one at a time, until your ankles are resting on your man’s corresponding shoulders (your left ankle goes on his right shoulder and your right ankle goes on his left shoulder, make sense?). Pump your booty back and forth until your sensuous moaning drowns out the sounds of the fan.


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    Ladies, bend over the side of your bed so that your breasts and stomach are flat on the bed while your feet are on the floor, legs spread comfortably. Guys, now get ready to penetrate from behind. But before you do, lift up your lady’s legs from just above the knees. With your lady’s legs elevated and holding them apart, begin thrusting away and enjoy this amazing sex position while simultaneously beating the heat.


    Alright guys, these summer time, beat the heat sex positions should keep you busy for the next few days.

    Stay cool!

    Love from your friend,

    Chispy Disty.

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    July 5, 2014 • Sex, Sex & Dating Tips • Views: 40242

  • Top 10 Mistakes Men Make When Trying To Get Girls

    The weekend is here and, as we all know, this is the time where we all go out to shitty bars and parties in hopes that someone will take pity on us and lay us.

    Some of you men might be more proactive than me in trying to get laid in the sense that you actually approach women and run game to get them to sleep with you. To help you up your attraction game for the coming weekend, I will now tell you the Top 10 Mistakes Men Make When Trying To Get Girls.

    Follow this advice carefully and you might just have sex this weekend.

    10. Social media is not where you want to break the ice

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    How do you get girls to notice you? The easiest way to get her to notice you is to like every single one of her Facebook photos, write on her wall and favorite all her tweets, flooding her phone and email with notifications. But it’s also down right creepy and pathetic and lazy. Unless you’re on a dating site or app, the internet is not a tool for you to get laid.

    So what should you do? TALK TO THEM IN PERSON! It’s really not so bad once you get the ball rolling. Just be confident you dumb idiot.

    9. Grinding is not a good way to break the ice

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    I totally understand that when your brain is full of testosterone and alcohol, cutting through the dance floor and rubbing up on as many warm bodies might make you think you’re turning every woman in the club on, but the truth you’re being a jackass.

    Guys, if grinding on as many women as you can is your pick-up technique, let me ask you this: ARE YOU TRYING TO GET SLAPPED? Because that’s what you gon get if you gon be grinding up in the club like that.

    Dance like someone who is not totally desperate for sex and don’t force your presence on the club. If a phone number or a hook-up is in your future, let it find you. Don’t force it.

    8. Resist the urge to drunk text

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    Again, I understand why you think, “I’ll just text everyone I’ve ever slept with to see if they’re free to have sex with me right now,” is a good idea after a couple of Cosmos, but it’s not.

    You’re not being sneaky or unassuming. Girls absolutely know that when you text them out of the blue at 2:30 in the morning, you’re trying to get some. Why is this a bad thing? Because girls talk. Amongst themselves. And if you keep doing this, every girl in town will know you as the guy that sends creepy booty texts every weekend even though you only hooked up once and it was because you were at your little sister’s bridal shower earlier that day and you just felt like making a mistake because you couldn’t bear to live with the jealously that your little sister Angela was getting married before you.

    Lay off the drunk texts, aight?

    7. Be Realistic

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    Many men have highly-inflated views of themselves. Don’t.

    Above is supermodel Irina Shayk. You will never date her. Ever. So don’t waste your time trying to impress her. Be realistic about who you’re going after.

    Now I’m not saying that there is a league system in place for human mating, but there totally is and you have to work your way up the ranks just like any pro athlete.

    Wait hang on…is that why they call it game?

    6. Be aware of your surroundings

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    It’s not always appropriate to start hitting on a beautiful woman as soon as you see her. She’ll just think you’re a desperate jerk with no class if you pick the wrong place to hit on her.

    For example, some women at the gym are there to work out. Women attending funerals probably don’t want to be hit on. Grocery shopping is super boring, leave them be. People get raped on subways (probably), so don’t approach the woman riding the subway late at night because she probably thinks you’re a rapist.

    Just be mindful of where you are and what’s happening around you and your game can be applied more effectively.

    5. Boring ass compliments get you nowhere

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    Above you see the incredibly gorgeous Alyssa Arce. What do you say to her if you want to attract her in real life?

    “Wow. Alyssa Arce, you are incredibly gorgeous.”

    Congratulations, you are now the 50th million person to call her “incredibly gorgeous”. Is that supposed to impress her? She’s only heard it 50 million times before.

    Compliments aren’t just nice things you say to people, guys. They are especially not supposed to be dull observations. The next time you compliment a woman, which I hope is already a part of your game, say something unique and memorable. Otherwise you’re just another fucking spec of sand in the hourglass.

    4. Don’t talk about yourself too much

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    Rattling off every attractive detail of your charmed life will make you look like an overcompensating dickhead. By contrast, drilling a girl with a full clip of questions will make her feel like she’s at an interview for a job that she doesn’t even want. It’s a difficult balance to maintain.

    But here’s a tip to maintaining the conversational balance: think of your conversation as sex.

    Like sex, conversation isn’t all about you, nor is it all about her. It’s about the two of you reacting to each other, coming together as one. Otherwise it’s just masturbation. So ask yourself before you start a conversation with someone you’re attracted to, “Do you want to have sex or just masturbate?”

    3. Don’t rely on booze

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    Though alcohol can sometimes give you a much needed confidence boost, just think about how hard peeing in a urinal can be while wasted. How you going to spit game in that state?

    You’re not. (Unless of course there happens to be a lonely girl as wasted as you are, then it’s a match made in heaven…but she’s likely to get poached by some scumbag)

    Drink in moderation because ultimately you need a clear head if you want to win at these mindgames.

    2. Avoid employees

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    How many times have you thought to yourself, “This waitress/barista/bartender/stripper/promotional model is totally into me?”


    They’re just making their living off the gullibility of men and who can blame them? It’s hard out there. It’s especially hard for these girls because the minimum flirting they do as a part of their job only ensures that they get hit on from the moment their shift starts until they quit that job and start a new career.

    Just leave these girls alone. Be polite and nice and not overly creepy. They’ll appreciate that.


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    Ultimately, you can’t take anything you read on the internet seriously, and that includes the Blog.

    These rules or tips or whatever are just things that I’ve learned over time through my own personal experiences, but they could be the complete opposite from your own.

    Here’s what you should do: Believe in yourself.

    If what you’ve been doing has been working, then keep doing it.

    If not, then maybe try something new? Experiment!

    All that matters is that you’re happy and healthy. If you have those two things, consider yourself very lucky and just enjoy it.

    June 20, 2014 • Sex, Sex & Dating Tips, TOP 10's • Views: 30927

  • 5 Tips for Giving Oral Sex from a Lesbian

    The following is a featured post from our new weekly columnist.  This is important because, unlike Chico or I (Gil Powers!), she is a woman.  On top of being a woman, she’s also a lesbian.  So if you want some alternative advice to pleasure the woman in your life (beyond Chico’s excellent sex tips columns), this seems like a good place to start!

    – Gil

    Being a woman, being with women, and being friends with women has definitely given me the upper hand when it comes to sex. So here’s a couple tips to help out those of you who want to improve your oral sex game.

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    May 20, 2014 • Sex, Sex & Dating Tips • Views: 53987