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  • Australians Don’t Wear Condoms Because Porn

    Why is science always trying to tell us that watching porn is bad for us? Continue Reading

    October 9, 2014 • Sex News • Views: 5606

  • 20 Sex Myths Debunked!

    As I’ve said many times before, I always knew that the general population had massive misconceptions about sex, but I never knew just how it was until I started writing sex advice for Sex.com.

    Every day, I get thousands of emails from people (almost all men) desperate to find out what they’re doing wrong. Except 99% of the time, there’s nothing wrong with what they’re doing. The problem is that they’ve been taught sex myths and then unfortunately judge their own sex lives and sexual performance on these sex myths.

    A common question our male readers like ask me is, “How do I last longer in bed? It only took me 30 minutes to cum the last time I had sex and I’ve never been more embarrassed in my life. I’m so ashamed that I might never have sex again. Can you help me with my premature ejaculation problem?”

    OK, maybe I’m exaggerating just a tiny bit, but most men write to me thinking that lasting a half an hour in bed is unusual. Truth is, thirty minutes is a long time to last in bed. The average ideal duration of sex is said to be anywhere from seven to fifteen minutes. Also, it’s important for me to point out that premature ejaculation has no universal time constraint. Premature ejaculation is all about perception. If you cum all of a sudden at 5 minutes or 25 minutes without warning, then that’s what constitutes premature ejaculation.

    Even worse are those of you who think that you’re masters of sex when really you’re just perpetuating sex myths and no one has the heart to tell you that what you’re doing is totally wrong.

    Why are sex myths so pervasive? Why does nobody know the real facts about sex? Because even in this day and age, when you can find local singles to have sex with through a few swipes of an app, talking about sex is still taboo. And that’s a damn shame.

    To help those of you who have had their confidence and self-esteem shattered by sex myths and for those of you living in blissful ignorance because all you know are the sex myths and not the facts, Mental Floss partnered with professor of pediatrics at Indiana University’s School of Medicine and author of Don’t Put That In There Dr. Aaron Carroll to debunk 20 of the most common sex myths.  Continue Reading

    July 10, 2014 • Sex, Sexual Health • Views: 31232

  • There’s a Better Female Condom Coming You Lazy Bastards

    Female condoms are a relatively new and experimental thing, but they’re slowly but surely being rolled onto the market, which is probably good news for all of you lazy/stupid dudes out there who can’t be bothered to spend 10 seconds to open up a condom and put it on their dicks.

    The article in question basically re-iterates what I just said:

    Many men just refuse to use condoms, so if a woman’s partner refuses to use a condom or complains about a condom, she can say I’ll use one,” Herbenick says. “It provides a female-initiated or a female-controlled option.”

    The problem with female condoms in their current state is that they’re pretty unwieldy.  They don’t fit very well.  They’re probably pretty uncomfortable to wear, especially since they’ve been described as ‘baggy’ and ‘big.’  That sounds terrible.

    The project is funded by the Gates foundation, which works to promote and fund world health initiatives.

    Listen, this is a good/great thing.  The more viable contraceptive products there are on the market, the better.  I get that some guys don’t like using condoms.  Hell, I don’t even like using them.  But I do.  Because you HAVE to, especially if your partner isn’t using some other form of contraceptive, and probably even if they are.

    According to the study, less than 1% of the condoms in the world are female condoms.  That’s a massive problem, because it takes a lot of the power out of the woman’s hands.  A woman should have equal rights to safe, cheap contraceptives that a man does.  Going on birth control ain’t cheap, and isn’t accessible for many women.

    So Indiana University, good luck.  I hope that you can get something viable out on the market, and that we can stop relying on skeezy dudes to spend the time tossing on a condom in the heat of the moment.

    I mean, if you got a sexy lady to help you put on a condom, then why you even complaining in the first place?

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    June 4, 2014 • Sex, Sex News, Sexual Health • Views: 30616

  • Study Says Stress is a Sex Drive Killer

    Because we didn’t already know that, right? Well, now we at least have science to back it up.

    In a study published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine, the participants were put into two groups- highly stressed women and averagely stressed women. They were then shown lots of porn and their level of genital arousal were measured. According to Anna Davies from NBC, the results were that “The women in the high-stress group showed lower levels of genital arousal, higher levels of distraction, and higher levels of the stress hormone cortisol, which researchers hypothesize contributed to decreased physical arousal.”

    Basically, they believe the chemicals in your brain that make you stressed, also counteract positive things, like sex drive. (Which I can totally believe. Have you ever tried to do anything happy while majorly stressed out?)

    While the study was done on women and the article also seems to be aimed at women, Psychology today says that stress contributes to low sex drive for men too.

    Let’s face it, the chances of completely cutting out stress in your everyday in order to have better sex are very low. So how do you get your sexy mojo back? The article lists the way to solve this is to “have an orgasm” which while it is a great way to relieve stress and increase your sex drive, seems like really redundant advice considering highly stressed people have trouble doing just that.

    My advice instead is have a bubble bath, get a massage, watch a lot of porn on sex.com, have some drinks while you’re doing these things and THEN have an orgasm. Those things are stress relievers, right? Here’s some pictures to get you started:

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    June 3, 2014 • Sex, Sex News, Sexual Health • Views: 7999

  • 45% of Men Last 2 Minutes or Less – That’s Horrible Sexual Stamina

    Guys, y’all really have to work on your game.

    Established sex-master and urologist Dr. Harry Fisch recently did a post for Nerve in which he details the ‘normal’ frequency of sexual intercourse.  The findings are of course inconclusive, because what constitutes ‘normal’ is completely subjective.  It depends on  the person and it depends on the relationship.  Nothing to see here.

    More interesting is the fact that a whopping 45% of men last 2 minutes or less during sexual intercourse before cumming.  That’s ludicrous, and certainly not enough time for the majority of women to achieve an orgasm. 2 minutes is like, straight up premature ejaculation territory.  The fact that 45% of men fall into that zone really questions our sexual health as a society.

    The average length of vaginal intercourse is about 7.3 minutes, which, although better than 2 minutes, still isn’t enough time for the average woman to achieve an orgasm consistently.

    What is a man to do?  First thing’s first, you should do some research on how to increase your sexual stamina.  A great starting point would the article written by our own Chico Dusty entitled “How Do I Increase My Sexual Stamina?”

    Things like increasing your sexual stamina take hard work and dedication, but I’m asking you to undertake the mission of improving your sexual stamina for two main reasons:

    1) Your sexual partner will thank you when you stopping blowing your load as soon as you penetrate them.

    2) We need to boost these averages up for the sake of men everywhere.  2 minutes makes us look like a bunch of goddamn jokers.

    So, to help you work on that really underwhelming sexual stamina, please look at these sexy pictures and gifs while masturbating.  Try to make yourself last a bit longer than usual.  Then, visit Sex.com and look at some more pictures and try to beat your previous record!  See, working on your sexual stamina can be fun, like a game!  Not giving your girl an orgasm isn’t fun though, for you or her.

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    Did you make it all the way to the end without cumming? Excellent work! Keep trying to break that record on Sex.com!

    via Nerve

    April 30, 2014 • Sex News • Views: 20313

  • 11% Of Americans Think HTML Is An STD

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    People sure are stupid.

    How uninformed are Americans when it comes to sexual health? Based on the number of times I’ve been asked, “What is sex?” I’ve always assumed that it was pretty freaking bad.

    According to a new survey by VoucherCloud and published by the LA Times, Amercians don’t just know nothing about sexual health, they also don’t know a goddamn thing about technology either.  Continue Reading

    March 5, 2014 • Sex News • Views: 825

  • Quit Smoking and Save Your Penis

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    Cigarettes!

    Let me start by saying that I love cigarettes. Now I’m not a medical doctor, but as a smoker I can tell you that cigarettes make you look cool, they make you smell good, and they make you feel good.

    Of course, there are many harmful side-effects that can occur from smoking. But let’s be honest, is the threat of lung cancer really going to make you quit smoking? Yeah, I didn’t think so.

    The Cancer Society of Finland has just released a new campaign to get people to quit smoking. Instead of just telling you what smoking will do to your body, they show you a non-smokers body in juxtaposition with a smoker’s body. The result is definitely frightening. Especially when you see what smoking does to your genitalia:  Continue Reading

    October 23, 2013 • BABES, Sex & Dating Tips, Sex News • Views: 2283

  • Measure B Debate on HuffPost Live

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    Condoms!

    If you check this blog often, you should know quite a bit about Measure B.

    If not, Measure B is the L.A. County ordinance introduced last November to make all condoms mandatory for adult performers.

    It’s a controversial issue to say the least.

    Policy makers and health officials who are for Measure B believe that making condoms mandatory will promote safe-sex and diminish the risk of disease among adult performers.

    People working in the adult industry think that condoms will be bad for business, that it’s a waste of tax-payer money, and that shooting with condoms can be logistically complicated.

    Now you have a very basic understanding of the Measure B issue. So let’s watch as Diane Duke, CEO of Free Speech Coalition; adult performers Danny Wylde and Steven St. Croix; Michael Fattorosi, an adult entertainment attorney; and Mark McGrath, policy and research analyst of the AIDS Healthcare Foundation go at it on a (recorded) live stream via The Huffington Post. Continue Reading

    April 23, 2013 • Sex News • Views: 615

  • Bill Gates’s Condom Challenge

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    The essentials: Condoms and money

    Microsoft tycoon Bill Gates has finally come to the realization that we here at the Sex.com Blog figured out a long time ago…

    Macs are way cooler

    Condoms need a makeover. He believes that a new type of condom will increase health benefits world wide. And Bill Gates is willing to put his money where his mouth is. Bill Gates is prepared to give away a $100,000 grant to whoever can create the next generation condom.

    Continue Reading

    March 26, 2013 • Sex News • Views: 539

  • Joint replacement boosts your sex drive

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    I smell a foursome…and moth balls…

    Despite what you may have seen on the Mature section of Sex.com, old people really don’t have that much sex. It’s totally understandable that they don’t because hormonal changes and aging lowers your sex drive.

    But thankfully, science has discovered a way for seniors to boost their sex lives, increase mobility, and decrease pain. What is this magic sex-life-saving procedure?

    Knee and hip joint replacement.

    Continue Reading

    March 21, 2013 • Sex News • Views: 237