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Surely you’ve seen cuckold porn in the time you’ve spent scrolling through the endless amount of porn we have on Sex.com.

If “cuckold porn” isn’t ringing any bells, allow me to explain it to you.

A cuckold is the husband of an adulterous wife. So when you see porn that features a husband half-heartedly saying, “I’ve always wanted to watch my wife get fucked by another man,” and proceeds to sit fully clothed while watching his wife get railed by some porn stud, that’s cuckold porn.

Whenever I’ve been in relationships, I’ve never had the desire to watch my significant other get fucked by another man. Whenever I’ve helped a housewife cheat on her husband, I never wanted the husband to watch me fuck his wife. It all just seems too awkward. My philosophy with sex is either join in or wait outside. No watching allowed.

So then why would porn, made largely by men for men, depict men who take pleasure in being cuckolded?

Because there’s a huge demand for it! According to an analysis of a billion search terms by neuroscientists Ogi Ogas and Sai Gaddam for their 2012 book A Billion Wicked Thoughts, cuckold porn is second only to “youth porn” in heterosexual porn searches.

BUT WHY?   

Fantasizing about cuckoldry, while perfectly normal since there’s no sense in trying to explain any sexual fantasy as normal, is totally ass-backwards from an evolutionary standpoint. Fear of cuckoldry is what explains a man’s irrational and at times violent jealousy. So why are so many men having cuckold fantasies?

Columnist Dan Savage has suggested that the cuckold fantasy is a coping mechanism for men afraid their wives will cheat. By turning fear into an erotic fantasy, cuckoldry is no longer a threat. However, psychologists reject Dan Savage’s notion because they think that the eroticization strategy is rarely taken with other fears. Have these doubting psychologists ever seen clown porn? Eroticization of fear is the only explanation I can think of for clown porn.

There may be a biological explanation for the cuckold fantasy. Research shows that when one woman mates with several men, those men can display changes intended to increase their likelihood of impregnating the woman they’re all having sex with simultaneously. According to a 2005 study, men who masturbate to videos of multiple men having sex with one woman produce more active sperm than men who masturbate to lesbian threesomes.

Other research has shown that men are more likely to thrust harder and deeper when they suspect they’re being cuckolded to displace rival sperm. It appears that men are just hardwired to find cuckold scenarios arousing because competition promotes behavior that will win a sperm war.

Hahaha. Sperm war.

Do men fantasize about cuckolding because they want to be humiliated? Probably not. After all, cuckold fantasies rarely have any correlation to masochistic acts.

There’s also David Ley’s theory that men just get off on the idea of other men desiring their wives. In this theory, the wife is a man’s status symbol and it gives him power over other men.

So what did we learn about cuckold fantasies today?

Well, there are a lot possible explanations for why men have them and none of them are conclusive. The important thing is that a lot of people have cuckold fantasies, as seen with its popularity in internet searches, so you shouldn’t feel weird or strange if you have one.

My advice though is not to act on your cuckold fantasy.

I treat my sexual fantasies with the “Don’t Meet Your Idols”-mentality. You should never meet your idols because they never live up to the expectations you’ve set for them. Like one time, I saw Sonic Youth on the street and said, “Oh my God, you’re Sonic Youth! You’re the greatest band ever!” And then Lee Ranaldo was mean to me. So yeah, don’t act on your cuckold fantasy because it will only disappoint you (or lead to a disaster in your relationship).

But that doesn’t mean you can’t enjoy the cuckold fantasy by watching cuckold porn! Let’s get involved in some cuckold porn now.

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Comments

  • Derz

    Do you women ever fantasize about cuckolding?

  • Derz

    I don’t like cuckold porn because i find it too mean and I have been cuckolded myself and it really hurt me and i would not fantasize about it at all anymore and i would not wish upon my worst enemies.

  • fetmanco

    How did the idea come about between you and your significant other?

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  • http://www.sex.com/news/about/ Chico Dusty

    I think that’s just called cheating.

  • http://www.sex.com/news/about/ Chico Dusty

    By the sounds of it, I think Derz got cheated on (ie cuckolded) and it really sucked.

    Derz, can you confirm?

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  • Eroscott

    My second wife and I were swingers. I watched her having sex with other men and enjoyed it, because she was enjoying is… but then, I was having sex with other women and enjoying it. We were both participating.

    Much of the cuckold porn I see (professionally produced porn)is white women having sex with black me with big cocks and the supposed husband has a tiny white cock. (But read this: http://eroscott.tumblr.com/post/73252962210/bbc-v-bwc) It’s stupid and mean and ugly. But I guess someone likes it. I don’t. I do look for look for amateur white wives having sex with black men while the husband records it. That’s just fantasy shit. But can be cool.

    But the professional porn that tries to humiliate the so-called husband is just sick and disgusting.

  • tim

    Who is the chick in the picture

  • Eroscott

    And, by the way, the true definition of a cuckold is a man who doesn’t know his wife is fucking someone else. It’s not someone who sits around, moping, watching her having sex with someone else.

  • fetmanco

    This sounds more like the reality of cuckold rather than the fantasy. And for me, the reality sounds like a lot of fun. Everybody should be enjoying themselves.

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