We both had affairs. Mine was short lived and filled with guilt, and fully repented of. Hers was pursued, purposeful, maintained for a long time (kept at it for 3+ years) and far more damaging. She has never even asked for forgiveness. I must assume that's because she felt (still feels?) justified. It has destroyed me, and now I feel stuck. This is my outlet. Maybe someday I'll show it to her, If she ever shows any willingness to actually "see" me and "hear" me. To actually understand what she has done.
